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In this discussion Jayson and Bryan go to the heart of the conflict that has been around since the beginning.We break down the motivation of Cain towards Abel and how it is the same motivation going on in our world today.  How our identity and purpose as an individual has been under attack.  We explore the purpose and aim of this motivation.  How it plays into our thoughts and actions in our world today.
"Oblivion is full of people who allow the opinions of others to overrule their belief in themselves." Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
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Jayson and Bryan are joined with an amazing guest - Pastor Bernardo Porter from North Carolina.Bernardo shares how the horrific death of George Floyd during his arrest has impacted himself, family, church and community.  He also shares his heart on the black, white and blue community.  In addition, strategies to begin bridging the gaps and responding to this tragedy in an impactful way.We also discuss the need for each other to step into another persons world and not just give advice or join a cause, but to walk shoulder to shoulder through this divide...together. outboundlife.orgfacebook.com/outboundlifetwitter.com/myoutboundlifeyoutube.com/outboundlifeYou can also connect with Bernardo Porter:www.facebook.com/PGCommunityNC/

Jayson and Bryan discuss the power stories have on our lives.
How they have a greater influence on our beliefs than mere facts and ideas.
They also tackle the differences life without God, for God, receiving from God and doing life WITH God. This brings us into the reality that what is opposing the direction of our life does not negate the destination, but is just an obstacle to the destination.
This and more in this episodes discussion.
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In this episode Jayson and Bryan, strip down the surface noise to get to the platforms of truth to which we can build.
What is the line of truth that one holds that they are unwilling to break?
What is the cost of standing on a truth?
What is the difference between an expert and an authority over an area?
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In this episode, Jayson and Bryan journey below the surface at how we interpret new or information.  How are view of life and minor biases drastically shape how we reject or accept what we hear and the outcome it produces. They also examine what is really behind the conflict.
Discover how your identity and source of life can change your confidence and understanding to the information around you.
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Episode Summary:
In this thought-provoking episode, the hosts explore the concept of true freedom and whether people genuinely desire it. They discuss the difference between emotions and the heart, and how freedom requires taking responsibility for one's decisions. Using a personal story about a hiking trip, the hosts illustrate how pausing to make a thoughtful choice can lead to greater peace and empowerment, even when the path forward is more challenging.
 
Main Topics Discussed:
 
(00:00:00) - Defining freedom and the difference between emotions and the heart
(00:07:13) - The story of getting lost on a hike and choosing the harder but wiser path
(00:16:09) - The balance between wealth/poverty and true freedom
(00:24:04) - The role of love and sacrifice in achieving genuine freedom
(00:42:01) - The importance of taking responsibility for one's decisions
(00:47:00) - Lessons from the biblical story of Cain and Abel
 
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Key Terms, Concepts, and References:
 
- Freedom: The power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint
- Emotions vs. Heart: Emotions can be misleading, while the heart represents one's true desires and values
- Responsibility: Taking ownership of one's decisions and their consequences
- Cain and Abel: A biblical story illustrating the contrast between a victim mentality and taking responsibility
- Conformity vs. Unity: Conformity arises from a malicious intent, while unity comes from a place of love and offering oneself
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This episode Jayson and Bryan discuss the meaning of "We stand alone together" and how this concept exposes the powerful force of a united individual.
The moment an individual is forced to conform, the individual is stripped and what they have to offer is taken.
When we have the freedom to give, we enable the mechanism of transformation.
We also take a look at when is it critical to resist and when do we set aside our ideas for the sake of others.Welcome to the discussion.outboundlife.orgfacebook.com/outboundlifetwitter.com/myoutboundlifeyoutube.com/outboundlife

In this episode we tackle the two prevalent forces in our world utilized to influence people. Our world is at a tipping point of a power persuasion.
A world changing event has revealed two opposing forces that are at work in the world around you.
What motivates these two similar in action, but distinctly different thought processes.
What is the motives behind them?Why is one hostile to the individual?
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In this episode, Jayson and Bryan discuss a recent event Jayson had with his 4 year old daughter and the reality of its effects on how we interpret answers that reside around us.  We explore: How experience can be misleading.How fear restricts the hope of freedom.How we misjudge characters due to our social perspectives.and more.Please comment or send insights here or to:outboundlife.orgtwitter.com/myoutboundlifefacebook.com/outboundlifeyoutube.com/outboundlife

In this episode Jayson and Bryan highlight the decision process of the characters in Esther.
When courage speaks to step forward and when to stand down.
How to keep your wits in the midst of chaos.
Our role in the big picture.
Most importantly becoming the stable lighthouse for others being tossed around at sea.
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In times of crisis and chaos, who you are in the midst of it is critical.  In this episode, Jayson and Bryan discuss the perspective of the powers that be and who are we to the mountains we face. 
We explore the reality and spiritual metaphor found in the book of Esther.  Discover a perspective of dealing with crisis that we can utilize in our current times. 
"It is not the mountain that is the challenge, it is who you are to the mountain."
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Who are you?
This is the question that is addressed as we explore the life of St. Patrick and how he changed a nation.This episode explores that what is in you can outgrow what is around you. The result you become the influencer and no longer the influenced.
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How does inspiration vs motivation affect our lives?  What does it mean to be inspired?  Where does inspiration come from instead of a feel good motivation?  We discuss these ideas and more while celebrating the life Matthew Richmann had on this mission.
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In this discussion we discuss the difference between persuasion and inspiring.  One tends to bring others under the influence of, while the other lifts others into a place of interdependence.  One is temporal and needs management, while the other produces a long term change of freedom and replication. Everyone influences, but what and whom becomes the great question.  Join us as we journey further into the fourth pillar of Mission: 300.
 
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In this discussion we bring together the previous episodes of Identity, Strength, and Courage in order to influence the world around us.  Influence is more valuable than money and is the catalyst for change.  
Join us as we step into the world of influence.
 
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